Ignoring your own emotional needs as a caregiver is only going to make those needs more complicated and more demanding. If you don’t develop a plan and start following it, you may find yourself more stressed and more emotional than you want to be.
Make Relaxation a Priority
Often your emotions are going to be more on edge when you’re tense and not taking time for yourself. This is one of the biggest reasons that making relaxation a priority in your life is going to pay back dividends almost immediately. Whatever helps you to relax is something you want to incorporate more often into your daily life. That might involve reading, praying, or meditating. Whatever works for you is what you want to turn to.
Write Your Feelings Out
Feelings are complicated and sometimes writing them out helps you to sort through them. It’s difficult to get started with that, though. Freewriting is a great way to just get started writing and then gradually ease into what is truly bothering you. You don’t have to save your journal entries, especially if you’re concerned that other people might read them. It can be cathartic to write out how you’re feeling and then shred or otherwise destroy those writings.
Talk with People Who Care about You
Spend time talking with people who love and who care about you. These are people who likely know you very well and who have your well-being in mind. They can support you and offer you advice about how you’re feeling. If they know your senior well, they can also offer assistance to you when you’re having difficulty with your relationship.
Talk with a Professional
In some cases, the emotions that you’re dealing with as a caregiver are really complicated. They may require the help of a therapist or counselor to figure out and to sort out. There’s nothing bad or wrong about talking to a professional. They have tools they can offer you that can help you to sort through the most complicated situations and get to the root issue. From there you can develop solutions that work for you and for your aging adult.
Being a caregiver involves so many different emotional responses. If you’re not dealing with your emotions in a healthy manner, that’s a situation that can backfire on you very quickly. It’s worth the time to sort through what you need and what can help you the most.
If you or a senior family member are considering hiring Home Care Services in Wyckoff, NJ, please contact the caring staff at Caring Solutions Home Care LLC. In-home senior care servicing Bergen & Passaic Counties. Call today at (973) 427-3553.
I started my career as an ICU nurse over 30 years ago. I have functioned as an educator and preceptor mentoring new nurses in the clinical arena. I have sat on many Patient Care committees authoring a variety of patient care protocols.
In 2007, I saw an opportunity to improve the delivery of patient care services in the home and founded Caring Solutions Home Care. Over the last 10 years I have functioned as the Director of Nursing overseeing all client care, administrative and personnel operations.
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